"Liza's Helpful Hints in Finding her cousins in Italy" Due to the abundance of mail I get each day from all of
you wanting to know how to find your cousins in Italy, I have come up with these helpful hints that helped me find my cousins in Italy. My Webpages have generated a lot of mail. So, here is a compilation of Liza's ideas that helped me find my cousins in Italy. I can not guarantee that you will find your cousins by using these ideas, but, I can share with you how I found mine. I do my research different than most people. I feel everyday that goes by is a precious day that is less in knowing an elderly cousin. I look for people who are alive and then work my way back in time, through family history and old photographs. Sometimes your family you find has little to share as far as dates, but, pictures are just as valuable, at least they are to me. I thought that just because my cousins live in Italy, that they should know all the family history. But, I have found that I know more then they do living clear in another country many thousands of miles away. |
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Here are Liza's Hints that found her cousins in Italy 1.)REGISTRY OFFICES-I wrote to the registry office in the
city where my grandfather was born. I had to send money (cash) in with the request. 2.)FAMILY CERTIFICATES-Once I got my family certificates back from the registry office, I wrote one complete letter of all of my family information and claims. 3.)ENGLISH OR ITALIAN-I thought it was a good idea to write a version in english on one side and a version in italian on the other side. Between the 2 letters, my cousins would get the complete idea of what I was searching for and what I expected from them (to find my cousins). 4.)THE WHITE PAGES FOR ITALY-On my main cover of my italian genealogy webpages, I have a link that says"Liza's favorite italian genealogy links." The second button down after entering that page is the telephone white pages for all of Italy. I put my surname and city in these blanks and pulled up everyone with my surname and started writing. Yes, there was over 400 DiCredico's in Italy.By clicking on a specific name,a person can obtain a zipcode, telephone number and address of each person to write to them. 5.)ADDRESSING LETTERS-When I address a letter to Italy, I always write the name of who it's to like this: ***Per Liza DeCredico e famiglia*** This way if a family member is deceased that you were originally writing to,the other family members will open the letter instead of return- ing it back to you. My letters looked like this as an example> Per Mr.Palatta e famiglia 101 Torino 77100 Vasto (Chieti) Italia 6.)SENDING LETTERS-When I mail a letter I always send it "AIRMAIL." You pay for it and if you don't specify how you want to send it to the postmaster, he can send it either air or ground. Air takes 7 to 14 days and Ground takes 1 month to 6 months (depending on the month it is mailed). 7.)POSTAL COUPONS-I have bought postal coupons to put in my letters, however my cousins have said they are useless in some cities. 8.)INTERNATIONAL MONEY ORDERS- I have also taken time to order many $5.00 money orders to send for my family certificates. I have paid $7.00 to 10.00 per certificate to get them changed from American money to Italian Money Orders. Then, after I send them with my request to Italy, they send them back, not wanting to collect any money for the family certificates. Then when I got to cash them in at the bank, the bank wants to charge me another $7.00 to $10.00 (each money order) to exchange them from Italian money orders to American dollars. I have a lot of italian money orders in my scrap books. 9.)SENDING CASH TO ITALY-My letters I send to Italy and get from Italy have had the bottom of the letters cut out like in the shape of a v or u. The money is removed. I have many ways to solve this problem. One of them is to insert foil as big as the letter, inside the envelope. THis makes it almost impossible to see in the letter to trace cash money. (This is what I have been told from friends). 10.)ITALIAN TRANSLATOR PROGRAMS-I do use a translating program. However, my cousins have complained that they are unable to understand some of the phrases, that I write. No program can take the place of a human person but for myself, I have no schools around me to each me. So, I have learned one word at a time. A translator program for your computer is very handy when you have to keep communicating with your cousins in Italian and you don't know their language. 11.)DiCredico's and DeCredico's-When I write to people that have my Italian Surnames, I always keep their research they share with me filed in a book labeled with the surname on it. I use the plastic liners from a store and keep it at my finger tips for easy access. Just because their research might not match now, it may match with yours 100 years ago. 12.)CREATE YOUR OWN WEB PAGES-I have had so many people with my surname write to me. The web pages have been wonderful! You can produce a web page from page editors. You can pick out things to write and put on your pages and press the button and it is done. Not to hard. 13.)ITALIAN SURNAMES AMERICANIZED-I kept in mind that MOST of my Italian Relatives Surnames were Americanized when coming into the United States during immigration times. Most of my relatives that were italian couldn't write or speak the english language, therefore left little emotion to try and defend their families "TRUE" Italian Spellings. 14.)ITALIAN SURNAMES VARIATIONS-I put the first few letters of Italian surnames in the white pages. For example, the name Parenti,I found that if I submit the first few letters such as "Pare" in the italian white pages, many different names came up that could of been my surname because of the wrong name written down during immigration. If someone is having a hard time researching a line, this may be the cause, I would keep an open mind to all the spelling variations that come up in the white pages for Italy on the internet. I found Parenti,Parente,Parenta and more..... 15.)CHRISTMAS PRESENTS TO ITALY-I send all of my Christmas presents in October,including Christmas cards. This has guarenteed me that all my Christmas presents are arriving to all my cousins in plenty of time. 16.)POSTAL EXPENSE ON POUNDAGE-I have found that the cheapest way to send packages to Italy is in 2 pound packages. This goes for small package partial cost. From the cost it is really easier to send cash for presents. But, this is the most economic way if you have to send a small package to a loved one in Italy. 17.)INTERNATIONAL WHITE PAGES-With seaching the internet I did find photo pages for many different countries.I wrote to EVERY family in EVERY country with my Italian surnames. It is possible to find cousins in Canada,Australia,Argentina, United States,Other parts of Italy and more countries.Keep and open mind. 18.)SEND A PHOTOGRAPH-With my first letter to Italy, I tried to always send a wallet sized photograph. This creates a first bond with you and your cousins. On my first trip to meet my cousins in Italy, I seen my Photo in a frame at EVERY house so much more special. 19.)SOUND INDEX CERTIFICATES-A person can go to the Family History centers located all over the United States. A person can order by sound index,all the films with their Italian Surnames. For example if I was looking for DiCredico in the city of Chieti, I could go to the church, order the films by sound index through the church. Photocopy all that pertain to your family you are researching. 20.)SOUND INDEX CERTIFICATES MATCHING-My couisn Joseph went to the Family History Center and researched one surname in his family. For example he searched Pietrocola, he ordered the films for all one surname for all one city, photocopied all of the certificates on the films, took all of these home and pieced them all together. He has built quite an empire of information.(Thanks to Joseph for sharing this tip). 21.)SEARCH ENGINES-There are tons of Search Engines on the internet. Some are Italian search engines. I put my surname of in each one and wrote to all the persons in each web page. 22.)CREATE A PAGE DEDICATED TO ALL WITH YOUR SURNAMES-I have created web pages for ALL of the families with the surnames of DiCredico and DeCredico's to sign. Once placing the surname of DiCredico or DeCredico on my pages, the search engines sweep that information up and offer it to all the persons researching that surname. Many families have found me this way and signed my guestbook. 23.)CREATE AN EMAIL PAGE-If you find other families with your Italian Surnames and want their addresses posted for others to contact them as well, then start a email page of all the people whom have your same interest. I would get permission from each family first,before posting their information publicly. 24.)EMAIL SEARCH ENGINES. I have listed these on my favorite genealogy links.I put the Italian Surnames in each engine and wrote to all of the people with my surnames. These helpful hints were listed on this page to share with other people searching for their lost families as I am. These are not to be linked to or reproduced in any way. Prosecution will be followed for stealing my information on my web pages. Please write for permission pertaining to my ideas. Liza DeCredico UPDATED ON December 1999 I am not liable or responsible for anyone using my ideas, these are hints that I experienced and it was requested of me to share the steps I took to find my family to help that other's may succeed from my true life experiences. |
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